Slowly coming out of my funk
The last few weeks have been rough. I had intended to post about my b-day a few weeks ago, which was on a Thursday. Before I could do so, though, my dad went into the hospital the next day and passed away on Monday night. He had been sick for several years, so this wasn’t entirely unexpected, but at the same time it was unexpected. Anyway, I had planned on posting about my birthday, working the election, and then my 5th year wedding anniversary. Instead, I went into a funk and just the thought of typing the words made me sink deeper.
I finally went in and asked my doctor for some medicinal help, which she readily gave me. What I didn’t realize was that I didn’t need medication to break out of this. What I needed was this -
My dad passed away the nigh before the election. That afternoon I was scheduled to help set up the polling precinct where I was to work and on a whim I decided to look at the shelter listings while I ate lunch. I came across the listing for this beautiful girl. She had been saved from a euthanasia list at the pound and was being fostered while she healed from a broken collar bone that was the result of a possible car accident. The listing said she wouldn’t be up for adoption for 4-6 weeks. Well, my hubby and I had talked about the possibility of adopting a dog at the end of December, so I couldn’t resist emailing the woman taking care of the dog. After a couple of emails and phone calls, I got to meet both of them yesterday and it’s official… we’re bringing her home at the end of December.
While I’m still dealing with my emotions, I feel like this dog has rescued me. She’s given me the ability to focus on something else and to look forward to. It feels like fate brought her to me, knowing when I’d need her the most. I just hope my cats feel the same way!
November 16th, 2008 at 7:00 pm
So sorry about your Dad!!
Your new addition looks great.
November 17th, 2008 at 8:37 am
Oh, once the cats let her know that they rule the roost, everything will be just fine
I hope everyday gets better for you.
November 17th, 2008 at 9:15 am
I am so very sorry to hear about your dad, Nancy. My thoughts are with you and your family.
And I love the new puppy…I hope she brings happiness to your heart again.
November 17th, 2008 at 9:16 am
I am so sorry about the loss of your Dad.
Your new dog-to-be is beautiful. I think it’s wonderful you both found each other!
November 17th, 2008 at 12:04 pm
Oh Nancy, I am so, so sorry to hear about your dad. We’re never really prepared for the pain of losing a loved one, even when the end is not entirely unexpected.
And your new girl is just beautiful. I cannot begin to explain how much my life has changed (for the better) since we adopted Allie and Zorro. It’s really one of the best decisions I’ve ever made, and I’ve said more than once that my dogs rescued me, without a doubt.
And now you can join me over on the doggy boards at Ravelry!
Hugs to you…
November 18th, 2008 at 11:33 am
Nancy,
I am so sorry to hear about your Father. Cute dog. You guys will have lots of joy together.
November 21st, 2008 at 9:16 am
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I hope you will let me know if you need anything. Even if it’s just a few words via email. I’m here.
November 27th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
OH I’m sooo sorry about your father, even if its after a long illness, death is never expected, and a flood of emotions always follows. We’ll all be thinking of you. And Abner and Django said your new addition to the family is exactly what you need, dogs are particularly good at responding to the needs both emotional and physical of their people and will help you get thorugh any situation. I know you will have loads of fun and happy times together. And what a looker she is! I’d better not show Abner or Django, they’ll try to leave me and come find you!
November 30th, 2008 at 12:12 pm
Nancy, I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. It’s never easy, no matter if you’re prepared or not. I know your new pal will bring you a lot of joy and love.
We miss Duke (our dog) who passed away a couple of months ago. He was about 15 years old, and no one can replace him, but we’re thinking about bringing home a new pal, too. We’ve been to the Peninsula Humane Society a couple of times, and we’re looking now to find our new best friend.
Best wishes to you and your 5-year beau,
Sandy